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Facing Lonliness and Change Full Frontal

Extreme change demands extreme strategies.  So we are facing it.   Full frontal.  Head on!     It's time to live without abandon....on purpose.   Being the mother of three adult men is the highest joy of my life.  It is also the deepest and most suffocating loneliness.  I had no idea!  And maybe its just me.  They are completely independent self sufficient beings.   They don't need ideas or my great wisdom (as if they ever did) and they certainly don't need me to "do" anything.  What's a "doer/fixer" mom supposed to do?? Pout?  Fester?  Chase them around the proverbial Circle of Security?  Be prideful of my awesome parenting skills?  Nope.  I know it wasn't me.  No healthy coping skills here. I need to deal!  Accept.  Be With. To have such searing emotion on both extremes of the spectrum is beyond my expression and understanding. It i...